OK in 2007 my father fell out of a tree,he is now paralyzed from his chest down,his legs jump like frog legs he has spasms all the time,i tell him dad u need to get up a little bit and move them around,I am constantly repositioning his legs,he has a cathiter bag,he has b m \'s normal
But when he gets in his wheelchair it hurts him he aches and wants to lay back down....I try to keep him up as long as i can
My father can wash him self face arms chest but i do the rest for him he can shave himself....When he cough es Mg i feel bad for him cause he has no muscels in his stomach to cough anything up.....He hadn't had a bath I'm mean a real bath since 2007,what can we do to accommodate this and help him feel better...
We are in galesburg IL and i cant find nothing here no support groups nothing for him
We want to take him to the mayo clinic in Minn but he cant handle the ride that far....He has a handicap bus type vehicle cause the vans were to short....He has the top of the line wheelchair electric but ints uncomftable to him he leans to one side,i put a pillow on his side to support him....
I need help so bad
The other day he wanted to stop all meds so he would die,he was beating himself in the head and in the temple,he cries alot
Im ready to loose it seeing him cry all the time
My father has given up
