Hi there,
Just wanted to say about the swimming,Tell him not to give up and thats coming from me...lol...

I'm lazy an should do so much more but maybe if i spend a little longer on here seeing how others dont give up,it will make me pull myself together.
I go swimming in a hydro pool every week and all of me would drown but my partner comes in wit me and i use loads of different floats.The long ones i put under both arms an over my chest,gr8 b4 swimming on ya back.
But soz as 4 on my front i'm trying to work that one out.
Good Luck
Tan